making good first impression

Making a good first impression has been proven by science to be even more important than people think.

The first impression has a lasting effect. It’s been proven that making a good first impression increases the chances that people will overlook poor things that you do in the future. Consequently a bad first impression can result in people ignoring the good that you do in the future and maintaining that negative verdict.

We rely on our first impressions as the main form of information about someone. Most people make this decision in 21 seconds or less, that’s why it’s so important to know what you’re doing whenever you meet someone new.

First impressions are a constant occurrence in multiple areas of life. From meeting a girlfriends parents, to meeting your potential future employer.

We’ll show you 7 ways to improve your first impression chances.

 

The 7 Ways To Make A Good First Impression

 

Research & Preparation

If you want to make a good first impression, then being knowledgeable about the situation is a great idea. This will firstly remove any confidence issues that you may have, but it’ll secondly make the person feel important.

If you know something about the company/person you’re talking to, then it’s a lot easier to open a conversation or seem interested in them.

Talking to a girlfriends Dad about his prized car could be a great way to get your foot in the door. Talking about how a company’s last campaign really got the message across is sure to score you points if you go into detail as to why.

Don’t get caught out, as they say “fail to prepare, prepare to fail”.

 

Body Language

Body language has to happen naturally. Get inside your head and think too much, and you’ll end up making mistakes.

Work on your body language until you become a man who’s able to give a firm handshake, walk tall, is okay with standing still, has great eye contact and can do all of this naturally.

Once this occurs, you’re able to make a great impression non-verbally whilst focusing on the verbal aspect and being present to the conversation.

 

Clothing

 Science has also proved that we rank people higher when they’re dressed in a more professional manner.

The trick is, always dress one-up on the occasion. Meeting the girlfriend’s parents? Forget the basic t-shirt and jeans, go one up and wear something more formal, like t-shirt, jeans, a blazer and smart shoes.

You have a meeting with potential clients? Add a waistcoat to that suit and make sure it’s tailored a week in advance if it isn’t already.

 

 Language

Curse words are sometimes needed to emphasize a point, but when meeting someone for the first time, it’s probably best to leave them out, as well as slang terms.

You want to appear intelligent, you want to be someone who seems mature and of a high level. You could be meeting a man who believes his Daughter is the greatest person alive, or a boss who believes his company is operating at the highest possible level. These people don’t want to take risks, they want the best and they want it wrapped in a perfect little bow without flaws.

Be what they’re looking for, don’t overstep the line before they feel comfortable with you.

 

Personal Appearance

Your personal appearance says a lot about you. If your hair is overgrown, your skin looks terrible and your hygiene isn’t what it should be, then most people will carry this impression over into other areas of your life.

Women will believe that this is a man who can’t take care of himself and will let her down often.

A manager you’re trying to get hired by will see you as someone who shows poor attention to detail and probably won’t take pride in their work.

 

Company You Keep

The people you hang around with are considered a reflection of you. Why would they hang around with you otherwise if they weren’t similar?

You have to be careful about who you call friends. Labels stick! The last thing you need is a negative label prior to meeting people.

 

Efficiency

Efficiency refers to how well the first meet went. When two people meet for the first time, there tends to be a purpose for the meeting.

You could be on a blind date, you could be meeting parents, you could be going for a job interview or even meeting a client.

Each of these situations has a reason as to why the person is there. If this reason is fulfilled effortlessly, then it makes it far easier for that person to like you.

Imagine a date where your car runs out of gas and the two of you are forced to run in the rain to the restaurant you were attending. This woman is probably going to avoid seeing you again.

You have to make the entire process run smoothly and fulfill the purpose of the meet. If this is carried out well, then the individual/individuals you’re meeting will always hold you in high-regard, leading to a good first impression.

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The first impression has a lasting effect. It’s been proven that making a good first impression increases the chances that people will overlook poor things that you do in the future. Consequently a bad first impression can result in people ignoring the good that you do in the future and maintaining that negative verdict.

We rely on our first impressions as the main form of information about someone. Most people make this decision in 21 seconds or less, that’s why it’s so important to know what you’re doing whenever you meet someone new.

First impressions are a constant occurrence in multiple areas of life. From meeting a girlfriends parents, to meeting your potential future employer.

We’ll show you 7 ways to improve your first impression chances.

 

The 7 Ways To Make A Good First Impression

 

Research & Preparation

If you want to make a good first impression, then being knowledgeable about the situation is a great idea. This will firstly remove any confidence issues that you may have, but it’ll secondly make the person feel important.

If you know something about the company/person you’re talking to, then it’s a lot easier to open a conversation or seem interested in them.

Talking to a girlfriends Dad about his prized car could be a great way to get your foot in the door. Talking about how a company’s last campaign really got the message across is sure to score you points if you go into detail as to why.

Don’t get caught out, as they say “fail to prepare, prepare to fail”.

 

Body Language

Body language has to happen naturally. Get inside your head and think too much, and you’ll end up making mistakes.

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Clothing

 Science has also proved that we rank people higher when they’re dressed in a more professional manner.

The trick is, always dress one-up on the occasion. Meeting the girlfriend’s parents? Forget the basic t-shirt and jeans, go one up and wear something more formal, like t-shirt, jeans, a blazer and smart shoes.

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Curse words are sometimes needed to emphasize a point, but when meeting someone for the first time, it’s probably best to leave them out, as well as slang terms.

You want to appear intelligent, you want to be someone who seems mature and of a high level. You could be meeting a man who believes his Daughter is the greatest person alive, or a boss who believes his company is operating at the highest possible level. These people don’t want to take risks, they want the best and they want it wrapped in a perfect little bow without flaws.

Be what they’re looking for, don’t overstep the line before they feel comfortable with you.

 

Personal Appearance

Your personal appearance says a lot about you. If your hair is overgrown, your skin looks terrible and your hygiene isn’t what it should be, then most people will carry this impression over into other areas of your life.

Women will believe that this is a man who can’t take care of himself and will let her down often.

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Efficiency refers to how well the first meet went. When two people meet for the first time, there tends to be a purpose for the meeting.

You could be on a blind date, you could be meeting parents, you could be going for a job interview or even meeting a client.

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