taking your girl to a party

We don’t behave in the same way when we’re around our girl and when we’re around the boys.

This isn’t because we’re fake, it’s because both situations have different vibes and atmospheres.

When you’re with your girl, you’re not likely to be jumping around the room shouting, she’d think you were an idiot and the environment probably wouldn’t call for that type of behaviour.

However put you in a sports bar with the boys and suddenly every changes. This isn’t to say your behavior is now reckless and unwanted, you’re just simply wrapped up in different emotions.

Unfortunately, the behavior you show around the boys, is probably the opposite of what your girl wants to see, and the behavior you show around your girl is probably the opposite of what the boys want to see.

So what about the occasions where both are in the same place at the same time?

It’s difficult, but don’t worry we’re here with the guide to your girl and the boys etiquette.


 

How To Behave When Your Girl & The Boys Are In The Same Environment

Window Shopping – Everyone does it, even your girl does it, it’s harmless, but only when she’s not around. Get caught window shopping with the boys and laughing about some hot girl you’ve seen, and you’re done, your girl won’t think it’s harmless and arguments begin. Sit this one out and distance yourself from window shopping or talking about other women, you’re under surveillance.

OTT – Being “that guy” is hilarious in a group of guys. The crazy one who does all of the stupid stuff gets praised in a group of guys, however your girl doesn’t want to see you throwing up or jumping into the pool, so calm down for the occasion and let someone else be the fool.

Too Soft – Stand next to your girl all night saying loved up things, and your boys may abandon you. You don’t need to be over the top in either direction, keep things neutral and control the night.

Balance – Who do you spend time with? Start off the night with your girl in order to help her settle and meet people. Then gradually pick appropriate moments to go off and talk to the boys. This balance is easy, if you start thinking you’ve been somewhere for too long then you probably have.

Alcohol Consumption – When you’re with the boys the drinks probably go down a little quicker than when you’re out with your girl. You don’t want her to think you’re some crazy alcoholic, so keep things steady. If you are drinking that night, then half your normal number, then half that again if you’re a well-known lightweight.

Be Mindful Of Your Company – Chances are you and your girl both know people at the event. If she doesn’t know anyone, you still can’t trust everyone. We all know that one friend who stares at your girl for a lot longer than they should and secretly wants to replace you. Remember that even a quick joke with a stranger could lead to it getting back to your girl, and you don’t need this for something so trivial.

Manners – You want to be polite to your girl, but also to everyone around you. If she notices that you talk to your friends like dirt, then she may have a different opinion of you. Curse words may have to be kept to a minimum for the night.

The Ability To deflect Comments – The boys are going to test you, that’s what they do. They want to see if you’re under the thumb. Comments such as “he doesn’t usually behave this way” need to be laughed off and moved along quickly before she asks “how does he normally behave?” This is an awkward situation and should be avoided.

How You Dress – So many men turn up to events with their girl in something they clearly haven’t chosen. In order to avoid ridicule from the boys, you need to sort out an outfit prior to the event. Something you’re comfortable wearing that still says I made an effort. If you’re the type of guy who always dresses up then this is easier. However if you’re the hoodies and jeans type, then you show up in a waistcoat and smart shoes, then questions will be asked. Find somewhere in between these two extremes unless the event is very formal, and you’ll be fine.

Showing Affection – You simply have to show your girl affection. This is the one area that she’s going to test you on. Are you afraid to kiss her when the boys are watching? If the answer is yes, then you’re sleeping on the floor tonight. Girls hate it when you act differently as soon as your friends are around. They see you as a liar and believe you can’t be trusted. It’s an extreme conclusion that they draw, but it’s something every man should be aware of.

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We don’t behave in the same way when we’re around our girl and when we’re around the boys.

This isn’t because we’re fake, it’s because both situations have different vibes and atmospheres.

When you’re with your girl, you’re not likely to be jumping around the room shouting, she’d think you were an idiot and the environment probably wouldn’t call for that type of behaviour.

However put you in a sports bar with the boys and suddenly every changes. This isn’t to say your behavior is now reckless and unwanted, you’re just simply wrapped up in different emotions.

Unfortunately, the behavior you show around the boys, is probably the opposite of what your girl wants to see, and the behavior you show around your girl is probably the opposite of what the boys want to see.

So what about the occasions where both are in the same place at the same time?

It’s difficult, but don’t worry we’re here with the guide to your girl and the boys etiquette.


 

How To Behave When Your Girl & The Boys Are In The Same Environment

Window Shopping – Everyone does it, even your girl does it, it’s harmless, but only when she’s not around. Get caught window shopping with the boys and laughing about some hot girl you’ve seen, and you’re done, your girl won’t think it’s harmless and arguments begin. Sit this one out and distance yourself from window shopping or talking about other women, you’re under surveillance.

OTT – Being “that guy” is hilarious in a group of guys. The crazy one who does all of the stupid stuff gets praised in a group of guys, however your girl doesn’t want to see you throwing up or jumping into the pool, so calm down for the occasion and let someone else be the fool.

Too Soft – Stand next to your girl all night saying loved up things, and your boys may abandon you. You don’t need to be over the top in either direction, keep things neutral and control the night.

Balance – Who do you spend time with? Start off the night with your girl in order to help her settle and meet people. Then gradually pick appropriate moments to go off and talk to the boys. This balance is easy, if you start thinking you’ve been somewhere for too long then you probably have.

Alcohol Consumption – When you’re with the boys the drinks probably go down a little quicker than when you’re out with your girl. You don’t want her to think you’re some crazy alcoholic, so keep things steady. If you are drinking that night, then half your normal number, then half that again if you’re a well-known lightweight.

Be Mindful Of Your Company – Chances are you and your girl both know people at the event. If she doesn’t know anyone, you still can’t trust everyone. We all know that one friend who stares at your girl for a lot longer than they should and secretly wants to replace you. Remember that even a quick joke with a stranger could lead to it getting back to your girl, and you don’t need this for something so trivial.

Manners – You want to be polite to your girl, but also to everyone around you. If she notices that you talk to your friends like dirt, then she may have a different opinion of you. Curse words may have to be kept to a minimum for the night.

The Ability To deflect Comments – The boys are going to test you, that’s what they do. They want to see if you’re under the thumb. Comments such as “he doesn’t usually behave this way” need to be laughed off and moved along quickly before she asks “how does he normally behave?” This is an awkward situation and should be avoided.

How You Dress – So many men turn up to events with their girl in something they clearly haven’t chosen. In order to avoid ridicule from the boys, you need to sort out an outfit prior to the event. Something you’re comfortable wearing that still says I made an effort. If you’re the type of guy who always dresses up then this is easier. However if you’re the hoodies and jeans type, then you show up in a waistcoat and smart shoes, then questions will be asked. Find somewhere in between these two extremes unless the event is very formal, and you’ll be fine.

Showing Affection – You simply have to show your girl affection. This is the one area that she’s going to test you on. Are you afraid to kiss her when the boys are watching? If the answer is yes, then you’re sleeping on the floor tonight. Girls hate it when you act differently as soon as your friends are around. They see you as a liar and believe you can’t be trusted. It’s an extreme conclusion that they draw, but it’s something every man should be aware of.