women make men better

There’s a theory that love makes the world go round. However the realists among us know that it’s sex.

If humans lived forever, but both sexes were divided and never allowed to mix, then society may not go anywhere. This would be especially true for men. The great men of history have carried out their actions whilst being driven by lust, sex or something very similar…power.

If women weren’t around, then the desire to become better, dress well, stay groomed, succeed, achieve more and have more would fade.

Of course there may be a desire to rule, become dominant and so on. But for the majority of men most of the things that use to matter would no longer matter.

Women are the driving force of men, and the level in which we reach is determined by the level of the women you aspire to have in your life.

 

Challenge Vs Reward

There’s a reason why we get our food and drink from supermarkets and not from the wild. Supermarkets are simply more accessible.

Why would you waste calories chasing and trapping a wild rabbit when you could drive to the store and have whatever you want effortlessly?

This is the effect of convenience and instant gratification. Our brains are naturally lazy and will also seek out the easiest option if it’s readily available.

Readily available is the key phrase here. It’s why fast food, express checkouts and Uber have been so successful.

The same effect occurs when it comes to women.

Imagine if every woman in the world wanted you. You didn’t have to work in order to attract them, they simply came to you on demand like a GTA cheat code.

You’d probably stop caring about your appearance, job or future, or at least maintain a certain level where this could continue.

This is something that so many men do when they find a woman who will willingly sleep with them. They remain at a certain level to keep a good thing going. They feel like there’s no reason to improve because they have something that is easily accessible. In other words for little challenge they’re able to receive a satisfactory reward.

This is why whole area codes can become stagnant. If the women in this area are at a level where little effort is required in order to attract them, then the men won’t feel the need to improve. Women are the pace makers for humanity, they set things in motion by being desirable, and they drive things forward if they’re rarely attainable.

 

Levels

The level of women you aspire to have in your life mirrors how the other areas of your life look.

If you’re interested in low quality women who have a poor reputation and very low standards, then you don’t need to do a lot in order to sleep with, or be with this kind of woman.

This creates little desire for improvement because it’s simply not necessary. However, if you find yourself interested in a woman with very high standards, who is only ever seen with top level men, then hard work is needed.

A woman like this has options and therefore can be picky. The barrier for entry with top level women is extremely high. The average man cannot simply walk up to a woman like this and causally get a date/number.

Human society moves forward through necessity. We encounter a problem, we fix it, we upgrade and this new standard/process becomes default.

The same thing happens to men who desire women considered above them on the social value ladder. They’re forced to improve out of necessity. If they didn’t they’d simply never get what they desire.

 

The Higher You Aspire

Aspire for a woman on your level, or settle for someone below your level and you’ll find yourself going nowhere in life because there’s no need.

Some men just want more out of life. They don’t want to drive a standard car, they want one worth hundreds of thousands. They don’t want to live in a house considered average, they want one worth millions. When it comes to women they don’t care what level they begin at, they just know what they want and they’re willing to do whatever it takes to get to that higher level.

Many people see this as unfair that you have to improve in order to what what you want. When we’re referring to the standards of women many men call it materialistic or superficial, but it’s actually a good thing for men.

As we said, without this sexual drive not a lot would get accomplished. Instead of being angry at women for not wanting you, you should thank them for forcing you to be better.

Ask any man who got dumped by his girlfriend and became successful what he’d say to her if he saw her today. I guarantee it’s thank you.

Women force us to be better. How much better is up to you and the level of women you aspire to having in your life. Make it count, aim for the top and watch your life improve.

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There’s a theory that love makes the world go round. However the realists among us know that it’s sex.

If humans lived forever, but both sexes were divided and never allowed to mix, then society may not go anywhere. This would be especially true for men. The great men of history have carried out their actions whilst being driven by lust, sex or something very similar…power.

If women weren’t around, then the desire to become better, dress well, stay groomed, succeed, achieve more and have more would fade.

Of course there may be a desire to rule, become dominant and so on. But for the majority of men most of the things that use to matter would no longer matter.

Women are the driving force of men, and the level in which we reach is determined by the level of the women you aspire to have in your life.

 

Challenge Vs Reward

There’s a reason why we get our food and drink from supermarkets and not from the wild. Supermarkets are simply more accessible.

Why would you waste calories chasing and trapping a wild rabbit when you could drive to the store and have whatever you want effortlessly?

This is the effect of convenience and instant gratification. Our brains are naturally lazy and will also seek out the easiest option if it’s readily available.

Readily available is the key phrase here. It’s why fast food, express checkouts and Uber have been so successful.

The same effect occurs when it comes to women.

Imagine if every woman in the world wanted you. You didn’t have to work in order to attract them, they simply came to you on demand like a GTA cheat code.

You’d probably stop caring about your appearance, job or future, or at least maintain a certain level where this could continue.

This is something that so many men do when they find a woman who will willingly sleep with them. They remain at a certain level to keep a good thing going. They feel like there’s no reason to improve because they have something that is easily accessible. In other words for little challenge they’re able to receive a satisfactory reward.

This is why whole area codes can become stagnant. If the women in this area are at a level where little effort is required in order to attract them, then the men won’t feel the need to improve. Women are the pace makers for humanity, they set things in motion by being desirable, and they drive things forward if they’re rarely attainable.

 

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The level of women you aspire to have in your life mirrors how the other areas of your life look.

If you’re interested in low quality women who have a poor reputation and very low standards, then you don’t need to do a lot in order to sleep with, or be with this kind of woman.

This creates little desire for improvement because it’s simply not necessary. However, if you find yourself interested in a woman with very high standards, who is only ever seen with top level men, then hard work is needed.

A woman like this has options and therefore can be picky. The barrier for entry with top level women is extremely high. The average man cannot simply walk up to a woman like this and causally get a date/number.

Human society moves forward through necessity. We encounter a problem, we fix it, we upgrade and this new standard/process becomes default.

The same thing happens to men who desire women considered above them on the social value ladder. They’re forced to improve out of necessity. If they didn’t they’d simply never get what they desire.

 

The Higher You Aspire

Aspire for a woman on your level, or settle for someone below your level and you’ll find yourself going nowhere in life because there’s no need.

Some men just want more out of life. They don’t want to drive a standard car, they want one worth hundreds of thousands. They don’t want to live in a house considered average, they want one worth millions. When it comes to women they don’t care what level they begin at, they just know what they want and they’re willing to do whatever it takes to get to that higher level.

Many people see this as unfair that you have to improve in order to what what you want. When we’re referring to the standards of women many men call it materialistic or superficial, but it’s actually a good thing for men.

As we said, without this sexual drive not a lot would get accomplished. Instead of being angry at women for not wanting you, you should thank them for forcing you to be better.

Ask any man who got dumped by his girlfriend and became successful what he’d say to her if he saw her today. I guarantee it’s thank you.

Women force us to be better. How much better is up to you and the level of women you aspire to having in your life. Make it count, aim for the top and watch your life improve.